OK - so if the facts of the matter are you've done everything you can to move the legal stuff forward then that's it. Let it go. You are not (far as I know) Superman, so all you can be expected to do is what you've done. Be at peace with that.
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014