Jim0987 #9 - Blackholes, cats and overanalysis

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Jim, I remember the pre-move out conversations and they are tough. All you can do is listen and try not to loose your sh1t. Sounds like you did that as best you could. W seemed to express some true feelings there, but she also threw in a few ones to try to make you feel guilty (e.g. D3 being excited to move). Also sounds to me that she's not acknowledging her own role in all her misery, but so be it...not your problem.

Are you deliberately stalling and holding things up?

I wanted to come back to the trust thing. You seem to take it so personally that W thinks she can't trust you. If the reality is different then lighten up on yourself and use your actions to show her this is so in time. Also, does it strike you as a bit odd that you are worrying so much about making her feel like she can trust you, when she is the one who had multiple PAs? Do you trust her?