I show up only as a calm, confident, upbeat person. How do you accomplish this? I am polite like a co-worker or a customer to W. What does politeness look like to you? I show W that S12's happiness in this sitch is my priority. In what ways can this be achieved? I consider things from W perspective using empathy. In your mind, what does empathy mean to you?
Originally Posted By: HPoirot
If I could just find a way to simply see W as a good person making painful choices and show mercy and understanding and put my pain aside not matter what she does or says.
How can I just do this?
Write out another list of her good qualities and focus on them. That will get you in a good frame of mind for the ball game.