HP,

Originally Posted By: HPoirot

I show up only as a calm, confident, upbeat person.
How do you accomplish this?
I am polite like a co-worker or a customer to W.
What does politeness look like to you?
I show W that S12's happiness in this sitch is my priority.
In what ways can this be achieved?
I consider things from W perspective using empathy.
In your mind, what does empathy mean to you?


Originally Posted By: HPoirot

If I could just find a way to simply see W as a good person making painful choices and show mercy and understanding and put my pain aside not matter what she does or says.

How can I just do this?


Write out another list of her good qualities and focus on them. That will get you in a good frame of mind for the ball game.