I do know i'm hurting myself more than she is hurting me. The trouser thing is odd because I definitely have not done anything with them deliberately (Not going to swear i havent mistakenly put them in the wrong draw or something)
I'm getting much better in the last week or so which is good given at the moment everytime i get home more stuff is packed. the headspace app is helping quite a bit i think
it was the snooping that derailed me a chunk. but then i had a couple of opportunities tonight and didnt. the success will be when i dont even notice the opportunity.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
