I'm sorry to read that you are not feeling well (again). The stress of everything as well as being on call isn't helping your immune system. You are probably running on empty. I do hope that you'll be able to get some rest very soon and recharge your battery.
I think you are wise to seek out legal counsel about the property in FL. You need to know how to handle that so that you don't have any unpleasant surprises down the road. BTW, kudos to you for calling out your h about not saying thank you for trying. They may be in mlc, but that doesn't mean they can't recognize us for the little extras that we do when it comes to trying to help get the finances in order. You did it in a very nice way that got your point across.
I'm not surprised that your mom is going to require long term care. At least you are staying on top of this for her and hopefully you'll be able to get the supplemental Medicaid coverage she requires. How is mom doing?
Daring, please take care of yourself. I'm worried that you are running yourself ragged and not taking a wee bit of time to recharge.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
