Hey U-turn. I was pleased to hear about how things have gone since you had 'the talk' with your W. It is funny that sometimes sitches have to get to the point where you are 'done' before your S really sits up and listens.

It certainly sounds as though your W has been 'rocked' by what you have said. And I think you did well to do it in a calm, caring and specific way. I'm pleased for you that things seem to be on the turn.

It's very early days though, and you should proceed with caution with status of OM still a little unclear etc...but you know that already.

Good luck to you! x

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus