I'm sure there is a lot going on in your head at the moment but i just wanted to say that the advice and analysis 25 is giving you at the moment is potentially one of the greatest gifts you will ever recieve. If you can take that stuff on board, I mean really take it on board, I genuinely think your life as a whole will benefit.
You've come a long way already but there is always more to do
Onward HP
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress