I second that from Card 29. 25yearsmlc put in a big effort with a hugely helpful post - and you just don't seem to want to hear it. Talk to us Dawgy. Why are you struggling to take good advice on board? We're all here to try and help my friend...

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus