25, thanks for paying a visit. Have read many of your comments on others' thread and have gained a lot from that. On behalf of everyone here, thanks for all you do......
labug, thanks for your continued interest in my story. I should have been more clear, my kudos were for showing the initiative and bravery to improve yourself and in the process also contribute toward repairing/rebuilding your R with spouse.
Seems like in so many cases, the alternate easier "feel good/quick fix route" is taken. That seems selfish to me and that route I think often has even greater impact to the person taking it as well as those around them.
The statement above may come across as judgmental in some way and that is not how I intend it. Just an observation about overall culture - not even really specific to the situations here.
Have to take care of a couple of things and then will come back with some more specific updates on my situation and recent comments on my thread.
Me-48,W-51 M-22,T-24 S- 18,16,9 Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork
