Hello MCS. Don't assume all those things about her self esteem and guilt. Mind reading. Reading sitches here and from my experience.... the WAW works hard to show you what is useful for her to show. All you know is she doesn't want to contact you. You know how to act with DB... confident and calm and content. Just keep doing that.
I'm learning you can't be afraid to push your W away if you're doing what you know to do. Trust the process and work on how you act under stress. I'll work on doing the same.
Me: 44 W: 45 S: 11 Married: 15 Together: 18 BD: 9/29/2014 OM discovered: 10/16/2014 I left her behind: 12/14/2014