Just remember to leave your victim at home and if she hitches a ride in your purse, shush her.

Be open and listen, you may be surprised. I would suggest not saying much at all, just let him talk and when he's done, tell him you have lots to think about. Are you eating a meal-that's so awkward-just order an appetizer. Don't drink.

Whatever he says is all about him and his stuff. I agree on sticking to facts and not dredging up the past. If he goes there, do stop him.

Remember to breathe. Pranayama.

Namaste

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss