Db'ers..

I feel the biggest thing H and I are up against in our M and in terms of getting back together is his family and friends. I believe they have put a ton of pressure on H to leave me and follow through with this decision. And since he walked out 4 months ago, they have dropped me like a bad habit. I apologize to H's brother and SIL for some misunderstandings we had. They seemed receptive but still stand-offish. His mother has never reached out-- not once. Neither has anyone else in his family.

My question to all of you is, how should I handle this? Is there any Db opportunities I have with them? Is there any way for me to help make the pressure less?


Me 26 ; H 26
S 8
Married less than a year
Bomb 9/15/14
H moves out 9/15/14
H Files 11/21/14
Served D papers 12/31/14