Kgirl,

Thanks so much for the response. It is so hard to accept that we can't do anything. I guess that is part of the "grieving process". Denial, bargaining, etc...

My H says he hasn't researched D at all, not even the process. And yet, we are moving forward. Part of that I find hard to believe. I mean, who files for D and doesn't research the legal process at least? Wouldn't you even research the issues and problems that come with it? Why are people so delusional when it comes to huge issues?


Me 26 ; H 26
S 8
Married less than a year
Bomb 9/15/14
H moves out 9/15/14
H Files 11/21/14
Served D papers 12/31/14