May your new year be

[Ggrass]

Mine, tends to only show off the narc traits to those he thinks won't be believed.

So a bloke he had trouble with was a druggie, so h supposely went ballistic on the man. Bloke later thrashed the inside of the wreck (car) he had sold h. Bloke couldn't call police as he was drugged and or drunk and rolled car on public road. The narc explaination would actually explain quiet a lot, tbh, it would explain why h expected me to allow things he would not be comfortable with me doing. Things like h staying spur of the moment at his xw house. His explaination was she was working night shift not home and he knew he was not with her! When asked would h mind if gg stay at xh place undersame conditions h stated no not ok, he would expect me not to. He could not see why I would have any drama with it, when he did it, but did see why he wouldn't allow it. (If any one can actually follow that explaintion) sort of like was who stays at a bf place but thinks their spouse should stay home crying for years over them.

Either that or h has some mental health issues, when we first got together he was always saying how someone snuck by the house and deliberate turned on the gas, trying to murder him. Later he blamed my Sthen5 for playing when he shouldn't. H thought people were out to get him, quiet paranoid at times.

Got some more laywer home work. Need to clarify with evidence. Make my answers clearer. Good things it's a weekend, writing the r truth can be gal for this weekend, it's supposed to rain buckets!

Having work bestie to dinner, and her hubby. Cooking roast pork, mmmmm,m crackling.
Some bubbles too, I hope.

Need to clean house tho, it's a bit rough durring the work week.

Haven't heard from s17, for days. Alhough he was quiet chatty a couple of days ago. No apology, no asking to come home, no promise of any kind or significant talk.

Returning what he gives me. Which is not much, to be allowed home he will need to show significant change and or see the pscyh. He needs to get this whole anger thing sorted once and for all. Violent tantrums with threats to harm is not ok.