Card29 IX - New Year, New Card

[Mozza]

Hey Card29, I'm impressed with your insights and changes at work. I think you nailed it with regards to what you should have done. In fact, I'd go further than this. In my sitch, there are little to no schedule changes. It's my week and there's a problem? I handle it. Same for W, most of the time. Take the day off, get a babysitter, etc. We're co-parenting through a schedule, not day-to-day like a married couple. So basically, your mistake in my view was to volunteer at all. That's when you were too nice. On a related note, I never volunteer anything to my WAW: I let her ask and then decide if it suits me.