To me that comes across as a bit passive aggressive or a cop out. kinda playing the victim so as not to take responsibility. Oh poor me Im such a bad husband I couldn't do it right. How about sorry I didn't do it. I'll make it up to you. This would make you think he was sorry and would try harder. His statement makes it as though he is unable too.
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.