Can't wait to see the replies.

I wonder if its subconsciously meant to manipulate. Maybe its to try to get you to feel bad so you don't criticize him further, and instead even build him up. In other words, he does something he thinks you'll be upset with. So he does this to try to turn the tables and have you defending him vs attacking him. Maybe. I'm tired.

Still, even if that's the case, what's the right reply? I'm curious too.


Me:38 XW:38
T:11 years M:8 years
Kids: S14, D11, D7
BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15