Newb3, I have tried very hard at this and did ic. Divorce coach, read 30 books, been super dad,etc..all advise stay in home don't leave. Well its been a year and that ain't working either. Did the GAL been freindly, so don't beat yourself up. I KNOW it's super hard with your 4yr old. I have 3 kids with her and I have not left yet because of them. I think you are doing everything right at this point. Keep up the positive attitude. Don't initiate anything. If she wants you back you will know. Right now she probably thinks she can still have you if she wanted. You know that has to change! As soon as she sees she is loosing you she will either make it apparent that she made a mistake and want to work on things. At that point you may not want her back. Hang tuff! Read the bible! Good life book!
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