I rejoined the DB forum just a few days ago, so no I have not reread all of the books. I did however succeed at it the last time. Yes, her mental illness is mostly likely caused by the abuse she endured and several experts have all said the PAs and other questionable behaviors are directly related. I'm by no means perfect, never said I was. The facts I blurted out are true, many details left out because new members are told to make short frequent posts to get out of moderation. Also keep short because of time I have to post.
The advice you gave about the food and fixing the SUV contradicts the advice of others, I merely asked for advice. She can cook if she wanted to. Detaching and 180s worked best during my first round DBing so I was trying to find things to use. Did I back slide? Of course I did, I'll try my best to never do it again , but I am human and it certainly could happen.
M 53 W 44 D25 D20 S22 PA 10/95 BD abt 2k EA BD 9/2004 PA D'd 1/05/05 DB'd 9/2004-08 PA ends 02/2005 XW rehab 03/2005 piecing until OM3 June?/2005 Remarried 12/28/07 BD 12/18/14 Sep living together
