Hey MCS. Thank you for your very supportive posts tonight. I agree communication is good. Honestly, though... in my case I might consider 5 weeks of solid NC from my W.

It seems the mediation meeting then is your only chance. Do you act as if your moving on or do you look and act like you're wanting to talk?

It would seem like the acting detached and distracted b/c your life is awesome... maybe like you have a new GF... is he way to be right? Like you're barely paying attention to her while you're agreeable and understanding when she talks.

Good luck. Just keep going.


Me: 44
W: 45
S: 11
Married: 15
Together: 18
BD: 9/29/2014
OM discovered: 10/16/2014
I left her behind: 12/14/2014