Jim0987 #9 - Blackholes, cats and overanalysis

[Mozza]

I also have the wrong reflexes sometimes. I can't snoop (she's gone!) but in a minute of weakness I'll go see her Facebook or Instagram or that of OM, while it brings me only pain. What we're doing is exhausting for the brain: it's constant control. It's hard because it's unnatural. We don't have unlimited reserves of control. Once we really detach, it will become natural. Until then, we will slip. Focus on getting in the right place emotionally.