I was talking about when you were saying it's all your fault and you wanted to give up. I see tonight's discussion with W as a good thing.
This is tough, I know. My W won't talk to me at all, including anything about the kids unless we're in mediation. It's been this way for 5 months. One 1 sentence email "Kids were good, no issues" per week, no text, no phone, 45 minutes a week at mediation is all we have.
I guess I'm a little jealous that you had a conversation that found common ground with your W and it seemed productive. I've been wishing for that. You should take that conversation in itself as fantastic progress.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)