newbie needs help part 5

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Today my w and I talked about how to split assets etc, kids etc. She was angry when I asked her to email me what we discussed. Her attorney asked her yesterday to review a affidavit that was sent to her attorney back in Sept. He told her he needs it bye tomorrow. She called me and asked if I could get my attorney to give her until Monday. She became very angry when I suggested she discuss this with her attorney. He is reason she has no time to work on it, not me. She told me she has not been sleeping and wakes up thinking this is a nightmare.
I don't know what to say too her other than this is what you want. I didn't commit adultry and I didn't file for divorce. I am sorry if you are having a hard time with this but I can't help you with this. She then said I needed to forgive her for this that she is really sorry and hopes we can be good friends for the kids sake. She just feels like she needs to do this. I responded with thats how you feel and I just don't feel the same way. I know that the only way we could have a new marriage would be if she showed real remorse for what she has done. and withu me being her freind to be there when she needs something isn't going to change a thing. She needs to put on her big girl pants and do it on her own. This woman raped my soul with what she did and destroyed her own soul. She thinks getting divored is hard, I think that will be alot easier than living with yourself after what she has done to herself and her kids. Life is short! As you grow older and your outer beauty fades your heart and soul are what really defines who you are.