Divorced and moving out.....still hopeful

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Newb3,brother I feel for you. I can tell you my sitch is different but similiar. My w had Affair then decided she wanted a D,this was 11 months ago. We are still in the same house. D process started and wife wants me to be freinds and live here together until june. It is very hard to detach and been hell on the kids. she is a roller coaster. She wants to be freinds and I have zero interest in that and have told her so. W is very controlling and thinks not much will change for kids. You have to decide if you want to be her friend or not. Personally after 19yrs together and the choices she has made I don't need freinds like her. It's like she wants you to be there like a platonic freind. Not in my cards. I would be interested in what bond and starsky have to say.