He and I are simply business partners. I want someone to share my family and my life with. I hate pretending that I'm totally fine when really I think he is such a stupid jerk.
Yesterday was his birthday. Hmmm.... probably has something to do with all this.... ;-)
Can I say something like this:
"I know you didn't mean it this way, but it feels disrespectful when you assume that I will automatically cover any parenting changes. From now on, please pose those as requests. Please assume that your schedule changes will conflict with my life, and that accommodating your schedule will impact my life and plans in a significant way."
