conference early Feb. It's 4 days, and this trip, in addition to the other longer trip above, will create the most potential responsibility for you. Please let me know if I should help you find a sitter for the Monday of this trip." (My italics added).
That last sentence is just what you say to him. The first one is him showing he sees a problem and is being responsible about solving it.
And no, he hasn't lost the right to your partnership *in raising your daughter*. On that, yes, you will need to find a way to coparent for a lot longer than fifteen years. It's cr@ppy, but you have to choose -- am I going to fight the inevitable, or am I going to respond to my circumstances with grace and generosity? Maybe give him the benefit of the doubt?
When you get mad at him for the parenting stuff, sometimes I feel like you're acting out your anger for him abandoning the marriage rather than really angry with what's going on. I understand that. I really do. but how long do you want to live in that atmosphere?
You seem stuck, my dear. What's up?
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
