Although I don't know why I was even with him now when I see him, I still cannot negotiate anything with the man by way of settlement.
That I proved in mediation, h got the mediator on side by pretending to be confused, a bad communicator and joked around with her. She some how ended up on his side I think almost mothering him.
People seem to bend to him, I'm not sure how he does it. No one would believe that the man who sat in mediation and was ofended at my lone frustrated swear word, would call me names like w%##* etc. it's all about the projected fake persona. It was always behind closed doors or out of sight.
Oh yes, the covert narc, given charm can fool the best. It is very confusing because the narc reveals themselves only to those closest to them. This category represents only about 1.5% of all narcs. Sociopaths mimic normality cleverly but covert narcs don't mimic they just deny normality, they don't want it with those closest to them.
I have asked myself if my H is an overt narc, but frankly I think he is just compulsive and not narc. H doesn't care who sees so clearly he is not covert. Just plain horrid Henry.
Vanilla
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
