Glad you are in a better mood and feeling more detached. Quite honestly, I agree and completely understand what you mean when you say you don't check DB forums as much. Sometimes I find that the worse mood I am in, the more I am on this site and though it is extremely useful and helpful, sometimes you just need a break from reading all this stuff, so good for you.
Sorry I don't have more to say RE: kids, I don't have any and don't feel like anything Id say would be particularly beneficial, but just letting you know I'm here and following your sitch. I hope you and W have worked out something regarding co-parenting.
ME: 28 W: 24 M: 2.5yrs T: 5yrs BD: 22 SEP 14 W Leaves: 5 OCT 14