I've said gain vs loss a lot today. It really is that, what do you gain knowledge wise vs what you loose by knowing how you got it and what that does to PMA and your opinion of you.
Don't beat yourself up (we know you!) What was this meet up group then?
Edz
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015