How old are you both, when were the dates she first discussed leaving and when did she file? You were served, right? I don't know how you can say she filed if you were not served or did not waive your right to be served.
Do you have kids? Their ages & whereabouts?
Maybe you can put some basic information in your signature block so we can recall the facts faster and be better able to help you.
What's the latest medical info about your w's MS conditions? How active is she at the moment? What's her prognosis?
The more we know the better we can advise.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016