Our youngest has been acting out and showing fury at her dad for his absence during our separation from years ago.
IT's not easy at all. She's now 17. Lots of pain, lots or hormones and unresolved issues I'm only now really facing fully. I take her pain very very seriously.
Last Feb 28th, a 15 y/o boy she knew, left a suicide note for his friends and brother. The note mentioned several small to moderate things not going well in his life...
Then he jumped on the train tracks, stood up and faced the oncoming train, as his life ended...the funeral was even more brutal than you might imagine. I thought the parents would throw themselves into the grave...
That boy barely gave a warning. In fact, NO ONE saw it coming. You need to make Your Son's PAIN your focus, not your pain.
The phrase oft used by WAS is "kids are resilient and I, an adult, need to go discover myself" But in reality'
it is the opposite. That^^ is backwards. We are resilient and KIDS Need to discover themselves.
So HP, Be a lot more resilient, go to his freaking games without worrying how YOU will feel (in case your WAW is there!!!) This really truly is not about you or your wife or the choices you hate that she is making. Right now, it's about showing up for your son...
and getting your son some more help.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
