So I arranged the sitter for tomorrow. I see my H so little and have really not been at all communicative, so I felt like it would be more respectful and validating, and set a better tone for the next stage of our relationship, if I met in person to listen to hear what he has to say. However, if he starts going on again about how I don't light his fire, I'm going to stop him, say he's already made that clear, and ask him to move on. If he tells any known lies, I will stop him and ask him not to insult me that way.
Strong, brave women don't hide from the hard stuff.
The next few months are going to be really demanding. It'll be one more big growth spurt and then maybe I can just mature for a while. Like a complex and highly expensive wine after the grapes have been crushed.
Last edited by Maybell; 01/09/1512:07 AM.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
