You are doing so much better than you give yourself credit for Lou. You can't just get over this sort of thing you have to slog your way through the mess and the muck. Crying and facing it all is ultimately a good thing for you. It's ok to have those moments. You can tell a friend or keep it to yourself. There really aren't any rules except to be kind to yourself. Above all please try to be kind to yourself.

I am envious of your plans to travel. Where would you want to go first. The UK is a fabulous base for all sorts of great adventures. you have Europe in your backyard. A different country every month!


M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters
BD: 5/14
Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW
D Final 9/17

“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.”
― Maya Angelou