PS

No it's not too late. Look at my timeline below and at MOST people here. We worked this approach/program for many months/years.

This is not a sprint; it's a marathon.


You must prepare yourself for a longer task than you seem to realize.

It took your marriage awhile to get here, and it will take time to repair it.

I read somewhere that for every change you want to make AND have it seen as "real", you have to show that change a month for every year of the prior behavior.

So, if you were chronically late for the last decade of marriage, and you want to PROVE that you are now "Mr. Punctual",

you'd have to be punctual for 10 months (1 month of new desired behavior, for every year of the previous behavior).

Make sense?


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change