Originally Posted By: Barrybran
There's nothing wrong with asking if there is anything you can do to help but if she declines, you've offered and it remains her problem to solve.


This is what I need to keep remembering. I love to help others, but I don't want it to be forceful or make her feel like she is inadequate.

I need to be her "rock" that she can rely on.

M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15