I'm not sure on forgiving yet but I'm not ready get a divorce either, i would like to try and make it work at least but it looks a long road back. A friend text me this morning asking where I was as my car wasn't outside the house, I'm certain it was on w behalf, I was in bed but had left my car over the pub last night.
She text again tonight saying she would be over tommorrow to clean the kids rooms, I left it an hour before texting back "that's fine".
I have got slight concerns about the detaching phase, one of her issues in the past was that We didn't talk enough, I'm worried that if she is texting me and coming to my house and im being just to the point about things and not initiating a conversation she will think I'm just like before, when in reality I love talking to her.
