I still do everything a butler would do, except deliver the meals to her office/bedroom. She eats the leftovers from the meals I cook.
Is it time to 180 and stop washing her laundry and prepare less food so there is no leftovers? In seven yrs she has cooked maybe once a yr and I don't recall her doing any laundry.
Her suv is broke down, I probably can do the repairs but won't unless she asks me to.