I think my H feels criticized and controlled H says nothing is good enough, I always want more H says I am not nice, not naturally nice Says he gets to make no decisions Everything is about me and what I want H Says he has wasted his life: never wanted to be married or have kids but it was what I wanted
When I ask what he wants I get: ‘to be happy’
H is crypic, passive aggressive, bad memory, bad communicator
I have no idea where he is living (at night) I have no idea what he wants...what does he need to be happy? does he want to be married? this roller coaster has to tsp
Your H sounds a lot like mine. Especially with the bad memory and bad communicator part. Will be interested in seeing what a coach says. I'm on the fence about talking to one.
M:32,H 32 T:10, M5 BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15 Served D Papers: 10/15 Divorced: 11/15
