Well that part is now done. 2 hours waiting and 15 minutes before the judge. I was there first followed by my wife. When she arrived, my wife came up and started to talk to me and then suggested we could get a seat while waiting on lawyer arrival. We actually had a good conversation. First in a long time. She has greatly improved on this medication. Time will tell.
Today at least will remove the fixation on divorce. She has walked away from a lot today including a great husband. I have to just keep moving forward and onto next phase of dbing. I can now get on with things without the courts hanging over everything. Now I can finish the house without any interference while planning my future.
I will say I was sad and did get a bit choked up today.
Matt, I believe today was the same as pulling off a bandaid quickly exposing the scab. The scab is now exposed. We will have to wait and see if it heals. If you can hammer out an agreement, Matt, the court part is really a small thing. It will relieve you of a lot and maybe allow you to focus on the future and leave the past in the past.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"
