As far as Cadet's advice to GAL, I am finding that hard to do, since we have a little one. After I get home from work, I can't do much besides take care of the LO and get to bed. But this weekend I have a party for my office, and my mother is going to watch my LO. Husband is not going to the party, and that will be very awkward, since it is our annual banquet and everyone is bringing their spouse. But oh well. I thought about not going but then I realized that wouldn't accomplish anything besides making me feel worse.
I hadn't really thought about what changes I need to make outside of my relationship, but now that I think about it, you are right, that is the only think I can control right now, and if become a better more attractive person, how can that not help?
Me:30 H:31 D1 T: 7 years M: 3.5 years BD: 12/2014 3 month S starts: 2/2015
