You have an explanation for everything. Do you have a sponsor?

Tax protester or not, you still threw her life into disarray and embarrassment.

Everyone plans to stay sober, when you've done that consistently, she'll see it.

I did read far enough in your first post to see that she asked you to go to AA and you didn't. Women don't ask that if the drinking isn't a problem for them.

That's your assessment of the last 20 years, it's not hers right now and that what you have to live with. Maybe prison was the last straw for her.

About her Friend and you, apparently a trust was broken. Again, sometimes that's all that's needed in an already rocky R.

But you can prove yourself to her. Work hard on all that's on your plate, don't pressure her and respect her wishes.

You have to change first and it has to last. Again DB 101.

Read Cadet's welcome post daily.

Last edited by labug; 01/08/15 04:41 PM.
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M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss