He will get angry. Ah well. Don't simply do things to please him. You need to be smart about making significant decisions.
As for the changes that you need to make, you can list them all. It is your journal. Scratch some out. Add new ones. It will change as you go. Obviously, you will need to address the changes that are independent of a relationship with your H, because that is within your control.
The retreat will guide you in making changes within your M/R.
How are you doing with the homework that Cadet gave you?
Hopefully you get off moderation soon.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
