Busting this Divorce - 90 Days NC #4

[HPoirot]

Ok thank you. I accepted the invite. I do not want to escalate any battle with W.

Better to make this separation as easy as possible. Part of me resists that b/c of the fear that I'm saying I'm OK with all of this to her. Remembering that in life you get into bad situations and struggling against it doesn't help. Go with it and look for a way to make it work for you.

In her VM my W says she's worried b/c I haven't responded to her texts and says she hopes I'm well. After I accept her invite with no other word, she sends a text just now saying she hopes I'm OK.

Unless there's a really good DB reason to go... I'm going to tell S12 tonight that I'm not going to his basketball game on Friday. I have him the last 2 Friday's of the month so I will go then.

Pulling even farther back is best for me right now. I have no relationship with this person.