Have clothes at their house and clothes at your house.

I hated scented anything but it's a crazymaker for people when you bring it up. They get offended and while I wouldn't let that bother me in most situations, this is different. You've got a long life ahead with him and maybe her.

Keep the clothes in a bag in the garage and let those be the ones you send back next time.

If the Ds are allergic, that's another thing.

Control what you can control. Let the rest go.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss