Raliced, I sense a shift in your attitude towards your H. I think it's a good one.
Thanks Rpp - but I doubt it will last. Saw him this morning when he picked up girls and while I still feel some sympathy, I find I am completely lacking in empathy.
He still can't look me in the eye and only responds to what I tell him (D6 needs a lunch on Thursdays because she doesn't like the school lunch etc). He never initiates any kind of conversation. He just seems to ooze guilt and shame (he even literally keeps his head down when he's around). I don't get how you can feel so badly about something and still do it.
I still feel the urge to help him somehow but it's his mess to clean up - I have enough of my own work to do.
I tremble to introduce the topic of laundry again but here goes...I did think about asking him not to do the girls laundry again. The detergent OW uses has such a powerful scent that even after I wash their clothes, it sticks around and transfers to all the other clothes in the dryer. I feel like I am getting whiffs of "Eau de OW" all day.
