Originally Posted By: staytog
Tax evasion was the charge. Not a secret to her. The changes will stick. I'm sure ofthat. I don't want to go back to where I was and where we were. I'm a better different man now. She knows it, but she is concerned I might change back.


Of course, she's concerned. Respect that.

Her knowledge of what you were doing was contemporaneous?

Putting that aside, you have a lot of hurdles ahead of you. Will you have a job when you leave the half-way house? A place to live? You have to stay sober in the outside world. You have to learn to make better decisions. Yo have plenty on our plate.

Don't pressure her, just go on with your life, cementing the changes you've made. If in fact they do stick, she'll see that and may decide to take another chance.

That's the basis of DB.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss