Hi LT, Glad to hear that your W is starting to respond to meds and IC. Sorry that today is the final day of your M. I'm very close now myself and am NOT looking forward to it. Not sure how your W can blame your parents but I know how hard they look for "reasons" other than their own issues. My W also has a very bad attitude about our home and "hates" it, only she is no longer willing to walk away from it and is trying to get as much money as possible out of me. Money has always been a big trigger in her depression and while she is doing well financially, she acts as if she has no money and is constantly worried. Just yesterday she refused to help out D15 with something for school saying she didn't have $125 she needed. It broke my heart that I couldn't help her.
We are in much the same position you and I. I have a call set up today and will find out when I will get started at my new job. I really need to get that part of my life settled so I can begin to move on.
Good luck in court today. Just know that you have done and are doing everything possible to save your M. I have learned that while your S is fixated on D being the "answer", there really isn't anything you can do that will slow them down, let alone stop them. You did all you could.
