May your new year be

[gan]

That introspection I think is the gift that gets talked about.

I think you cracked the code there, Jim.

And Gg - I agree with Jim and Edz. The person we know here is very different to the one you describe. Your experiences came as a total shock to read. I never would have guessed based on the way you are here that you've lived through all that. You're a strong woman, Gg. Good things will come to you.