May your new year be

[edz]

Morning.

What your saying makes perfect sense Gg.

I cant say his actions make any to me, there seems to be a huge drive of rage and control issues there which is remarkably easy for me to say, I didn't live through it, considering all the chit you've dealt with it shows the strength of your character that you not only are not hiding away but are grabbing the world by...the collar...and telling it what you want, you'll get it too if I'm any judge.

Don't necessarily believe that 'the better you treat people the better they treat you' is wrong, I've found over the years (mostly to my detriment) that if I'm true to myself that's how I tend to want to be and if the last 6 months (or indeed 5 years) have taught me anything its to not try to be someone I'm not or to hide me away because things arent working. Just means I'm not communicating properly or, indeed, maybe to the wrong people, still working that one out.

It certainly doesn't sound to me like H is making any changes to himself unless that's reflected in the OW situation collapsing. Has there ever been any sign that he would want to listen and stop being that way or would that just be the sort of situation you described above, rage over criticism?

You stay safe Gg