Oh man. You guys and with all your posting. At this rate I'm going to have to up my game with the crow pose practice. Nearly at the end of this thread! (Which is a cheeky way of saying thanks so much guys for stopping by to lift my spirits - it has worked!)
So I think I figured out a solution thanks to Edz' reminder about text vs iMessage. Read receipts only come through with iMessage. Soooo...if we toggle from iMessage to text right before we send something to our WAS I'm pretty sure we won't get read receipts. Woot!
Feeling a bit better this afternoon. Good yoga practice tonight, and funnily enough my employer just sent around a recommendation for Headspace. I'm ahead of the curve!
Calibri - at this stage I'm not even expecting my H to reply to my texts. Thankfully I would still put us in the category of "still talking" since he does still reach out - even if on his schedule - every couple of months. I don't expect our next contact to be til February or later based on what he said last time. I have no plans to make contact. Must have faith in this process and leave him be… In the meantime I need to work on my validation skills. In hindsight I missed some opportunities at our last meetup.
In terms of GAL I've got a few things to look forward to: - Yoga 3x per week - just signed up to a vinyasa party class with live music and drumming (?!) - Music festival next Fri - volunteer gig, this festival just happens to include one of my favourite bands ;-) - (New) friends bday get together week after next - Spoke with a friend last night about going out to her place in the mountains for some personalised yoga training (sort out my downward facing dogs) and rock climbing - Possible yoga retreat end Feb - Must.finish.my.paper.mâché.moose.trophy.head.craft.project.that.I.started.months.ago! - Need to book into a mozzarella or pasta making class (Xmas gift) - Probably going to conference in Amsterdam end March - trying to tack on a week in London to visit sis after that - Probably going to Tanzania for work in April/May - thinking of tacking on a safari or trip to Zanzibar (one of my favourite places ever)
One of my goals is to expand my social circle so I need to find a few more things that get me meeting new people. I found a kayak meetup group that looks interesting. I’ve also come across a women’s trekking training group which sounds cool - but I’m not sure if I’m ready to invest in that given that I have no immediate goal of climbing Kilimanjaro or Everest (still relatively early days DBing though so who knows!) Oh…that reminds me about Oxfam Trailwalker! 100km in 48hrs, teams of 4. Tried to get on a team last year but missed out, so need to start looking now.
Still toying with the idea of joining St Johns Ambulance as a volunteer (provides first aid at public events).
I also came across a nonviolent communication monthly practice group that I want to make some inquiries about. Not sure if that counts as GAL, but it is something to do nonetheless.
Wow. That felt good to write out! Husband Who?
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014